As the election draws near and the nation remains deeply divided, one political couple demonstrates that it’s possible to thrive and remain united despite significant political differences. That couple is James Carville and Mary Matalin. Carville, a Democrat, and Matalin, a Republican-turned-Libertarian, showcase a successful and loving marriage that transcends their political affiliations. Here’s a look at what they’ve been up to.

Carville and Matalin have long been symbols of how opposing political views can coexist harmoniously. They met in 1992 when Matalin was working on President George H.W. Bush’s reelection campaign, and Carville was strategizing for Bill Clinton’s presidential bid. Despite their differing political perspectives, they have maintained a deep respect for each other and have shown that it’s possible to engage with people who hold different views.

Carville, known for his outspoken Democratic views, has even encouraged people to seek out differing opinions to challenge their own beliefs. Matalin, for her part, acknowledges that while they don’t always agree on how to achieve their goals, their core values align. She believes the key to their successful marriage is choosing which battles to fight and which ones to let go.

In their later years, the couple has scaled back their public appearances. Carville, now 79, has retired from active politics but still makes occasional appearances as a political commentator. Matalin, 70, has also stepped back from the limelight. The couple recently made headlines for selling their $3.3 million mansion in New Orleans and moving into a condo. They have two daughters together and continue to enjoy a strong marriage after more than three decades.

In addition to their political careers, Carville and Matalin co-authored a book in 2014 titled Love & War: Twenty Years, Three Presidents, Two Daughters and One Louisiana. Earlier this year, New York Times columnist Maureen Dowd highlighted Carville’s recent decision to leave his teaching position at Louisiana State University, citing the tense political climate on campuses as a significant factor. Carville admitted he felt uncomfortable and decided it was time to step away.

Despite the challenges, Carville and Matalin’s relationship remains strong, proving that love and respect can bridge even the widest political divides. Here’s to hoping they enjoy many more years together.