Benny Blanco is showering all the love he has on his lady love

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Benny Blanco is clearly smitten and serious about his relationship with Selena Gomez, and his recent interview with InStyle only reinforces that sentiment. Reflecting on their love story and engagement, Blanco opened up about his intentions to grow and evolve as a partner—something that seems to come from a place of genuine admiration and commitment. The 37-year-old producer didn’t hold back on sharing his hopes of having learned how to properly treat a woman, suggesting that years of experience, self-awareness, and watching both the triumphs and failures of his friends have shaped his understanding of love.

His comments also revealed a playful but sincere message to women not to settle, especially for men who are all surface and no substance. It’s a remark that carries both humor and honesty, and it speaks to the standard he’s trying to meet for Selena. The couple’s quiet engagement at the end of last year—marked by a private picnic and later shared online—seems to have been the beginning of a deeply personal and committed chapter in their relationship.

Blanco also credited his growth to observing those around him. He admitted that watching his friends mess up in relationships helped him avoid similar pitfalls, while their good gestures served as inspiration to adopt meaningful habits. His philosophy of “you stop learning when you stop listening” shows a humility that not all public figures in love often express, especially in the spotlight of celebrity romance.

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Meanwhile, speculation around their upcoming wedding continues to swirl. While the pair hasn’t confirmed any specific details, insiders suggest they’ve extended a wedding invitation to Ed Sheeran, adding even more star power to what is likely to be an intimate yet high-profile event. With Benny’s heart in the right place and Selena glowing in his support, fans are hoping this fairytale continues to unfold with even more joy ahead.