“It only took 30 years”: Jennifer Lopez talks marriage & feeling ‘whole’

In the candid interview, conducted on September 10, Lopez discussed how she has come to embrace single life and find happiness within herself.

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Jennifer Lopez on opening about her personal journey, revealed that she has learned to feel complete without the need for a significant other. In a recently published conversation with comedian Nikki Glaser for Interview magazine, the 55-year-old global icon opened up about the lessons she has learned in the wake of her split from actor Ben Affleck earlier this year.

Jennifer Lopez on embracing single life

Lopez, who has been married four times, filed for divorce from Affleck in April 2024, just two years after the couple revived their relationship and tied the knot in July 2022. Their romance, which had captivated fans since its revival in 2021, reportedly hit a rough patch by spring 2024, with the two spending much of the summer living separately.

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In the candid interview, conducted on September 10, Lopez discussed how she has come to embrace single life and find happiness within herself. “For people who are romantics and love being in relationships and want to grow old with somebody, we think, ‘I have to have that to be whole and happy.’ And you don’t,” Lopez explained. She emphasized that personal fulfillment doesn’t rely on being in a relationship—a realization that, she noted, took decades to fully understand.

“It only took 30 years,” Lopez added with a laugh, after Glaser, 40, praised her for the positive outlook.

The conversation marks a shift in Lopez’s often-romanticized public persona, as the entertainer has been known for her high-profile relationships over the years. However, her recent remarks suggest that Lopez is now focused on self-discovery and personal growth, regardless of her relationship status.

Beyond her personal revelations, the interview also touched on Lopez’s professional achievements, including her latest film Unstoppable, which premiered at the Toronto International Film Festival in September. The movie, which highlights Lopez’s versatility as an actress and producer, is another testament to her enduring presence in Hollywood.