Global music star Akon is heading for a major personal shake-up as his long-time wife, Tomeka Thiam, has officially filed for divorce. The filing, reported by TMZ on September 12, 2025, comes just days before what would have been their 29th wedding anniversary.
Who is Tomeka Thiam?
Tomeka Thiam is an American entrepreneur and record label executive who has maintained a relatively low profile despite her association with the global music star Akon. Born in 1975, Tomeka is 48 years old as of 2025. She has been a significant figure in Akon’s life, not only as his partner but also as a collaborator in various professional endeavors. Her entrepreneurial spirit and business acumen have contributed to her reputation in the music and entertainment industry.
Relationship with Akon
Tomeka Thiam and Akon, whose real name is Aliuame Damala Badara Akon Thiam, have been together for over three decades. Their relationship began in 1993 when Tomeka was 18 and Akon was 20, meeting at a party. The couple has since built a life together, raising five children: three sons, Alioune, Jahvor, and Muhammad, and two daughters, Alianna, and Journey. Their sons, Alioune and Jahvor, have followed in their father’s footsteps, pursuing careers in music, with Tomeka and Akon actively supporting their endeavors.
The couple owns a luxurious mansion in Atlanta, Georgia, valued at approximately $7 million, situated on five acres of land. This property has served as the family’s primary residence, where they have raised their children. Despite Akon’s public persona and his controversial views on polygamy, Tomeka has been recognized as his legal wife, though Akon has been linked to other women, including Amirah-Iman Thiam, Tricia Anna, and Rozina Negusei, as part of his expressed belief in polygamous relationships.
Akon’s Wife Files for Divorce
According to the divorce documents obtained by TMZ, Tomeka Thiam is citing irreconcilable differences as the reason for ending the nearly three-decade marriage.
Her requests in the filing include:
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Custody: She is asking for joint legal custody of their child but wants primary physical custody.
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Spousal Support: Tomeka is seeking spousal support from Akon.
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No Support for Akon: Interestingly, she has also asked the court to block Akon from being awarded any spousal support.
The divorce marks the potential end of one of the music industry’s longest celebrity marriages.
