Doja Cat’s latest controversy has taken an unexpectedly personal turn, as a seemingly lighthearted fan interaction turned sour in the days after it went viral. The situation unfolded after TikToker Pablo Tomayo, who has a substantial following of over 400,000, posted a video of himself meeting the rapper. In the clip, both appear to be in good spirits—laughing, sharing a hug, and even exchanging a cheek kiss. It seemed like a sweet moment between a fan and a star, but Doja Cat’s response afterward painted a very different picture.
Shortly after the video circulated online, Doja Cat posted a strongly worded message, now deleted, expressing discomfort with the encounter. She made it clear that just because she was smiling or seemingly friendly in the moment did not mean the interaction was welcome or appropriate. Her frustration centered on the physical contact, which she said crossed her personal boundaries, especially coming from someone who, in her words, didn’t even know her real name. She admitted to being drunk at the time and expressed regret for not speaking up in the moment. While she acknowledged that the fan “smelled good,” she emphasized that consent still matters, regardless of how harmless the act may have appeared to outsiders.
Pablo Tomayo, caught off guard by the backlash, responded publicly in a TikTok video of his own. Rather than reacting defensively, he appeared hurt and emotional, stressing that he never intended to disrespect Doja Cat or make her feel uncomfortable. He stated that he admired her work and felt saddened by the situation, especially given how warmly the interaction seemed to go at the time. Ultimately, he offered a public apology, saying that if he did anything wrong, it was unintentional and he sincerely regretted it.
This incident has sparked broader conversations about boundaries, consent, and the often blurry lines between fan admiration and personal space. While many fans have come to Pablo’s defense, arguing the moment appeared mutual, others have sided with Doja Cat, underscoring that her feelings are valid even if her reaction came after the fact. The interaction highlights how quickly perceptions can shift, especially in the age of social media, and the importance of respecting physical boundaries—celebrity or not.