Eileen Davidson’s life has been marked by a series of challenges and triumphs. Her journey from soap opera stardom in “The Young and the Restless” to her iconic role as Kristen DiMera in “Days of Our Lives” showcased her ability to handle intense moments on screen. Transitioning to “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” in 2014, she brought that same fiery energy, never shying away from standing her ground.
Entering the world of reality TV, Davidson faced initial apprehension, particularly regarding rumors about her earnings. She emphasized how producers intentionally stirred up conflict before she even met her co-stars. This exposure to heightened drama on and off-screen, however, pales in comparison to the personal struggles she’s endured.
Growing up with six siblings in a tumultuous household, Davidson experienced a mix of laughter, screaming, and emotional turmoil. Her father’s undiagnosed manic-depression brought a cloud of shame, while her mother’s history as an incest survivor was a revelation she learned in her 20s. Davidson’s mother passed away before the Season 6 reunion of “RHOBH,” a fact she kept private to allow her castmates to be honest with her.
Tragedy struck again when her brother and sister passed away within a month of each other. The loss of her sister, who battled cancer, was particularly heart-wrenching, as Davidson watched her fade away without being able to openly discuss her condition. The emotional blows continued with the loss of her niece, who succumbed to an apparent overdose.
In a brave and vulnerable moment on “RHOBH,” Davidson disclosed that she had survived two abusive relationships. She recounted incidents where physical violence left her with a broken nose, emphasizing that anyone, regardless of strength, can fall victim to such situations. Her message was clear: there is help available, and one can escape from abusive relationships.
Her marriage to Vincent Van Patten was also a subject of scrutiny, with accusations of infidelity from Brandi Glanville. Davidson clarified that they met while both were married to other people and neither had intentions of leaving their spouses. Despite the rocky start, Davidson and Van Patten’s relationship blossomed, leading to a strong and enduring marriage.
Participating in “RHOBH” came with its own set of challenges. Davidson admitted to experiencing symptoms of PTSD from the show, citing stress, insomnia, and frequent illness during filming. While she doesn’t regret the experience, leaving the show was a relief.
Though Davidson hasn’t ruled out a return to “RHOBH,” she acknowledges the potential complexity of reentering that world. Her journey is a testament to her resilience and the strength she’s displayed, both on and off-screen. Fans of the “Santa Barbara” star can appreciate her openness and willingness to share her story, even as she continues to make her mark in the soap opera world.