During its prime, The Howard Stern Show reigned as the most popular and scandalously raw radio show before its transition into a more subdued format featuring interviews with high-profile figures like Hillary Clinton. Within the show’s diverse array of characters, Ralph Cirella stood out, often finding himself in the realm of controversy. His recent passing due to a rare lymphoma, at the relatively young age of 58, left many shocked and saddened.
Cirella’s association with Stern dates back to 1985 when he first engaged with the show on WNBC. He subsequently ventured into handling special effects for Stern’s “Channel 9 Show” before evolving into Stern’s personal stylist. Reflecting on their relationship, Stern recalled the lighthearted moments when they sifted through clothes, often culminating in Cirella’s playful quip, “Alright, take your pants off now,” a memory that brought both laughter and sorrow to Stern.
Known for his irreverent attitude and passion for science fiction and gadgets, Cirella’s demeanor endeared him to Stern, despite the audience’s love-hate perception and constant speculation about his sexual orientation. Stern expressed the depth of his connection with Cirella, acknowledging the bond they shared as a unique language, and emphasizing the strong chemistry and friendship they cultivated. Cirella, to Stern, was akin to family.
However, Stern revealed his frustration about Cirella’s reluctance in seeking treatment for his illness, suggesting that delay impacted the potential for a successful cure. He spoke of his distress over the situation, underscoring his deep affection for Cirella and the pain of losing someone dear.
Throughout the show’s significant moments, Cirella would often dial in, sharing his unconventional perspectives or endorsing Stern’s viewpoints, contributing uniquely to the show’s dynamic. Notably, his influence extended beyond the show, as he played a pivotal role in introducing Stern to his wife, Beth.
In light of Cirella’s passing, John Stamos, a close friend and frequent guest on Stern’s show, expressed his grief on Instagram, emphasizing Cirella’s uniqueness and his profound impact, stating that Cirella wasn’t just a friend but family.