Jennifer Lopez talks about bedroom preferences and takes a subtle swipe at Ben Affleck

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Jennifer Lopez has never been one to hold back when it comes to sharing her truth, and during her latest tour stops in Europe, she made headlines once again. Whether it’s love, heartbreak, or even her bedroom preferences, JLo is laying it all out there, especially when it comes to her former flame, Ben Affleck.

During her stop in Spain, Lopez surprised fans by revealing she doesn’t see herself getting married again. Considering her romantic history and multiple marriages, including her recent one to Affleck, the comment raised eyebrows. Still, she didn’t stop there. While performing in Italy, she took things to a more personal and steamy level.

Speaking mid-show, JLo told the crowd, “I have to be honest with you, sometimes I get in different moods at night… sometimes I like it hard.” She then added, “Other days, I’m feeling a little romantic… on those days, I like it real slow.” She also confessed that summer tends to bring out her “naughty” side. Fans were shocked, amused, and totally engaged.

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But it wasn’t just the sexy confessions that got people talking. Lopez also performed her new song “Up All Night,” which many believe is aimed directly at Ben Affleck. The lyrics reportedly describe an ex who keeps trying to win her back, even though he’s the same person who wore her down emotionally. It’s a subtle yet sharp dig, the kind only JLo can deliver while glowing onstage in a rhinestone outfit.

According to Page Six, Lopez has recorded enough songs for a new album, and several of them are rumoured to be inspired by Affleck. This creative comeback comes as Affleck continues to guard his private life. In a past interview, he hinted at the challenges of dating Lopez again, saying, “You don’t marry a ship captain and then say, ‘Well, I don’t like going out in the water.’” It was a rare admission from the usually reserved actor, and it showed just how much their public relationship tested him.

The two still share a mansion that hasn’t been sold yet, which means they may still have reasons to stay in contact. But publicly, JLo seems to be closing a chapter, not with silence, but with songs and bold onstage moments.

Breakups and divorces are tough, and healing can take many forms. For Lopez, that healing is happening through her art. She’s putting her experiences into lyrics, melodies, and performances that hit hard, both emotionally and personally.