Paul O’Grady’s daughter, Sharyn, reflects on her unique experience of growing up with a father who was not only a beloved TV personality but also an iconic drag queen, Lily Savage. In the upcoming documentary “The Life and Death of Lily Savage,” Sharyn candidly shares her memories and insights into her father’s dual personas.
Born in May 1974 to Paul O’Grady and his former colleague, Diane Jansen, Sharyn provides a glimpse into her childhood and the complexities of navigating her father’s flamboyant stage persona. As she recounts her initial encounters with Lily Savage, Sharyn admits that it was “a lot to take in” to see her father transformed into a larger-than-life character, complete with six-inch heels and a massive blonde wig.
Growing up, Sharyn had limited exposure to Lily Savage’s performances due to their adult nature, but as she got older, she began to appreciate the artistry behind her father’s alter ego. Despite the initial shock, Sharyn fondly recalls moments like helping her dad with his makeup and accompanying him to buy tights for his performances, which gradually became a normal part of their lives.
However, Sharyn acknowledges the stark contrast between her father and his on-stage persona. While Paul O’Grady was known for his sharp wit, Lily Savage pushed the boundaries even further with her biting humor. Sharyn reflects on how Lily’s character allowed her father to express himself in ways that would have been unacceptable as Paul, noting that Lily “got away with murder” with her acerbic tongue.
Despite the occasional mortifying experience, such as fire-eating antics at her seventh birthday party, Sharyn cherishes the unique bond she shares with her father. She recalls moments of childhood innocence intertwined with the excitement of having a larger-than-life figure for a dad.
Paul O’Grady himself acknowledges the challenges of balancing his career with fatherhood, having become a parent at a young age. However, he finds immense joy in watching his grandchildren grow up, reflecting on the rewarding journey of parenthood and the continuity of family across generations.
Through Sharyn’s perspective, “The Life and Death of Lily Savage” offers a touching portrayal of the complexities of family life intertwined with the glitz and glamour of show business. It celebrates the enduring bond between father and daughter, bridging the gap between two seemingly disparate worlds with love, humor, and understanding.
