If you have seen the name Gleeden trending on social media today and wondered what it is, here is the complete explanation. Gleeden is an extramarital dating platform, meaning it is an app and website designed specifically and explicitly for people who are already married or in committed relationships to find romantic or sexual connections outside those relationships. It is not a general dating app that happens to be used by married people. Its entire design, marketing, and user base is built around discreet extramarital connection as the primary use case.

And it has 4 million users in India.

What Is Gleeden

Gleeden was founded in France in 2009 and is one of the world’s largest platforms specifically designed for extramarital relationships. Unlike mainstream dating apps such as Tinder or Bumble, which are designed for single people seeking relationships and incidentally used by some married people, Gleeden is designed from the ground up for married or committed individuals seeking connections outside their primary relationship. Its marketing, interface, and safety features, including discreet billing and privacy controls, are all built around the extramarital use case.

The platform operates in multiple countries across Europe, Latin America, the Middle East, and Asia. India has become one of its most significant markets by user numbers, with 4 million registered Indian users making it one of the largest Gleeden markets globally.

Who Uses It in India

Gleeden’s own data provides a detailed picture of its Indian user base. Bengaluru leads all Indian cities in sign-ups, followed by Hyderabad and Delhi among the major metros. The dominance of tech-heavy, professionally dense urban environments at the top of the list reflects the platform’s core demographic of digitally active, time-pressured professional users.

What is less expected is the tier-2 city growth. Lucknow, Noida, Chandigarh, Surat, Coimbatore, Bhubaneswar, Patna, Guwahati, and Raipur are all showing significant user growth. The geographic spread suggests that the conditions driving extramarital platform use, emotional loneliness, unmet needs, digital access, and relationship dissatisfaction, are distributed across Indian society more broadly than a metro-only narrative would suggest.

The demographic shift that has drawn the most attention is the 148 percent increase in women’s usage of the platform over the past two years. The growth spans both metropolitan areas and smaller towns, indicating a broader shift in how Indian women across multiple socioeconomic contexts are approaching relationship dissatisfaction rather than simply a function of greater digital access among urban professional women.

When Do Users Connect

The platform’s usage data reveals the specific times when extramarital connections happen in India, and the data is as telling as the user numbers. Peak usage occurs between noon and 3 PM during lunch breaks and between 10 PM and midnight when the spouse is distracted or asleep. Users spend an average of 1.5 hours per session in chat. The timing data provides an unusually precise window into how these relationships are conducted within the rhythms of Indian domestic and professional life.

Why Is Gleeden Trending Today

Gleeden is trending because of a new survey the platform released from its Indian user base that goes well beyond the extramarital affairs data and into territory that most people were not expecting from a dating platform survey.

The survey found that 54 percent of 1,500 Indian respondents have set up a virtual AI partner for sexual interactions. Fifty-eight percent have created a virtual partner for emotional and romantic interactions. And 49 percent admit to cheating with AI, meaning they consider their AI relationship to constitute a form of infidelity to their human partner. The AI relationship data, more than the extramarital affair data, is what has driven Gleeden into trending territory today, because it reveals a dimension of modern Indian intimate life that most people had no data on before this survey.

Is It Legal in India

Yes. Extramarital affairs are not illegal in India. The Supreme Court of India decriminalised adultery in 2018, striking down Section 497 of the Indian Penal Code which had previously made adultery a criminal offence. Since that ruling, consensual extramarital relationships between adults are a private matter and not a criminal one. Platforms like Gleeden operate legally in India as a consequence of that ruling.

What Experts Say About Why People Use It

Dr Vandana Shetty, psychiatrist, psychotherapist, and sexual health expert at Sage Health in Bengaluru, identified the key driver as emotional loneliness rather than purely physical desire. People who are married or in relationships can still feel profoundly lonely, she noted, and this emotional deficit drives them toward seeking connection outside their primary relationship whether through another person or increasingly through an AI construct.

The survey data supports this interpretation. The fact that 58 percent of respondents report seeking genuine emotional and romantic connection with AI partners rather than purely sexual interaction suggests the primary need being met is emotional rather than physical. That reframes the conventional understanding of why married people seek outside connections in ways that are more uncomfortable and more complex than the simpler narrative of physical desire.

The broader picture Gleeden’s data paints of modern India is one where four million people are using a platform designed for extramarital connection, the fastest growing users are women and small-town residents, and a majority of survey respondents are simultaneously conducting some form of intimate relationship with artificial intelligence. It is a picture of a society whose relationship norms are changing significantly faster than public conversation about those norms.

Whether Gleeden is a symptom of that change or a contributor to it is a question that sociologists, mental health professionals, and ordinary Indians in marriages across the country are navigating in real time.


This article is based on survey data and statements released by Gleeden India in 2026 and expert commentary from Dr Vandana Shetty, Sage Health Bengaluru. Survey findings are based on Gleeden’s own methodology and user base and may not be representative of the broader Indian population. This article is for informational purposes only.